So as a few of you know we had a visit from CPS (child protective Services) yesterday. The claim that was made was that: "The baby sitter leaves Andrew home alone." Ernie and I both looked at the caseworker like she was crazy. The case worker also informed us that she didn't even know that we had Elizabeth until Andrew told her about her. Pretty fucked up don't you think? Of course we went out to tell the case worker that Andrew nor Elizabeth is ever left home alone. That the babysitter is their grandmother and their step grandfather. Ernie's mom stays home with Elizabeth while his step father gets Andrew from the bus which he drive the truck down to pick him up so no ones in the drive way.
The case worker looked things over. Looked in the frig, told us more then enough food thats good. Looked at the kids bedrooms She seemed pleased with them as well. Then checked the other things she had to look for that we have power, gas and water, asked the question that had to be answered. In not so many words she told us that she has 30days to close the case but sees no reason to keep it open.
Yes we already know who made this bullshit call. All it shows is that she has to much time on her hands and she's childish. But on the other hand I can go around saying that my house was approved by the state as safe for children. How many people can say that uh?
At the same time we're sure that this is just the beginning with the neighbor. Since any time she comes outside she looks in whatever window have the shades pulled back. Yesterday i gave her something to look at when i flipped her off and told her to "take a picture it would last longer." She stated to laugh and said "I got you good so fuck you." I just think it's funny cause whatever she thinks she did she just made herself look stupid. Ernie and I take very good care of our children and our animals for that matter.
Unlike her we don't just take off and leave our kids at home. We take proper care of our animals which means letting them out more then maybe once or twice a day. We both actually drive and have vehicles so we can be responsible parents and make sure our kids get to places they need to go. It's more important to us that our kids are taken care of and a roof over their heads then me getting my nails and hair done.
I'll be so glad when we can just fucking move. It sucks cause i like the house but at the same time it is to small for us. we really do need a 3 bedroom.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Monday, May 16, 2011
Its been a while...
So its been about two months since i even bother to talk about things on my mind or even whats going on. Well... a lot happen in the last two months.
Ernie and I have been working on a lot of things and have made a lot of progress. We're no longer talking / even thinking about getting devoiced. Saturday morning we we're cuddling he got up after telling me not to move he came back out cuddled back into me and told me that he thinks I should be wearing this again and he put my wedding ring back on my finger. It feels good to have it back on not to mention to hear him say "I love you" and mean it. It also feels good to see his wedding band on his finger.
Work's kinda sucked I hate working for a temp place sometimes. Worked almost 3 weeks at this one place then of course the job was done. Whatever you know... Then of course they call me for a job today but theres no way i could do it 7 days a week midnights starting at 11 which is where it wouldn't work since the time Ernie gets home form work sometimes. Which it sucks cause I would have had overtime (would have loved it) but the 7 days a week would have killed me with the kids.
Andrew's test for ADAH came back negative. His teacher is still giving him a hard time i find it hard to believe he's being as difficult as she says he is. Since anyone that has ever watched Andrew always tells us how good he is. So him being bad every day someone has to be pushing him. Or his teacher needs to teach older kids.
Elizabeth has been really clingy lately. It makes it hard to do anything when she wants to hold on all the time. I notice she does it when Ernie or I work. I know she just misses us. We'll enjoy the cuddling while it last cause one day it wont be there. Potty training is going no where right now, other then sometimes (normally when we're about to go get Andrew off the bus) she'll sit on the potty but forgets about her diaper being on. I'll give her credit on it tho it's a step in the right direction.
Ernie and I have been working on a lot of things and have made a lot of progress. We're no longer talking / even thinking about getting devoiced. Saturday morning we we're cuddling he got up after telling me not to move he came back out cuddled back into me and told me that he thinks I should be wearing this again and he put my wedding ring back on my finger. It feels good to have it back on not to mention to hear him say "I love you" and mean it. It also feels good to see his wedding band on his finger.
Work's kinda sucked I hate working for a temp place sometimes. Worked almost 3 weeks at this one place then of course the job was done. Whatever you know... Then of course they call me for a job today but theres no way i could do it 7 days a week midnights starting at 11 which is where it wouldn't work since the time Ernie gets home form work sometimes. Which it sucks cause I would have had overtime (would have loved it) but the 7 days a week would have killed me with the kids.
Andrew's test for ADAH came back negative. His teacher is still giving him a hard time i find it hard to believe he's being as difficult as she says he is. Since anyone that has ever watched Andrew always tells us how good he is. So him being bad every day someone has to be pushing him. Or his teacher needs to teach older kids.
Elizabeth has been really clingy lately. It makes it hard to do anything when she wants to hold on all the time. I notice she does it when Ernie or I work. I know she just misses us. We'll enjoy the cuddling while it last cause one day it wont be there. Potty training is going no where right now, other then sometimes (normally when we're about to go get Andrew off the bus) she'll sit on the potty but forgets about her diaper being on. I'll give her credit on it tho it's a step in the right direction.
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